What are some things I should do with my Little?
Spending time with your Little can be simple, fun, and meaningful. Everyday activities like playing games, going for a walk, cooking together, doing homework, or talking about school and interests can make a big impact. Try to choose activities that encourage conversation, build confidence, and expose your Little to new experiences like visiting a museum, library, or community event. Most importantly, be consistent, listen, and focus on building a trusting, positive relationship rather than planning something elaborate.
Impact of mentorship
Spending time with your Little can be simple, fun, and meaningful. Everyday activities like playing games, going for a walk, cooking together, doing homework, or talking about school and interests can make a big impact. Try to choose activities that encourage conversation, build confidence, and expose your Little to new experiences like visiting a museum, library, or community event. Most importantly, be consistent, listen, and focus on building a trusting, positive relationship rather than planning something elaborate.
Become A Big
S.M.A.R.T
is a structured mentoring program where high school or college students (Bigs) are matched with elementary or middle school students (Littles) to build positive, supportive relationships. Mentoring sessions take place weekly at the school or designated site and focus on friendship, encouragement, and skill-building. All activities are facilitated and supported by trained program staff, ensuring a safe, consistent, and engaging experience that helps Littles grow academically, socially, and emotionally while Bigs develop leadership and mentoring skills.
Match timeline for youth
Inquiry (express interest and get more information-> Application-> Interview (get to know the little)-> Training (Safety training for parents and youth) -> Match proposal (staff will propose a potential match) -> Match meeting (introduction to match) -> Matched (on going match support throughout the match)
How it works
We want to work together to keep your young person safe. To do so, we start by thoroughly screening potential Bigs and Littles. Each volunteer must complete a screening process that includes:
1) Applicationand Orientation
- Apply here
- You will receive a phone call that gives you an Orientation
- The Orientation takes about 15 - 30 minutes
- Both BBBS and you determine if it's a good fit
2) Backgroundand Interview
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A national, state and local background check is conducted
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References are checked
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A level one fingerprint clearance card is obtained
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A home interview (in-person/virtual) is completed
3) Pre-Match Training
- Ground Rules
- Obligations and Appropriate Roles
- Child safety/youth protection
- What Match Support is and why we do it
4) Matching & Match Support
We match you with a little who is best suited We present the Match to Big and Little If accepted, we then schedule a Match meeting All parties receive regular contact support from staff
VOLUNTEER INQUIRY FORM
Frequently Questions
The application and interview processes help us to get to know your preferences and learn about the situation best suited for you. You get acquainted with us and learn what to expect. In making your match, we take into account your personality, likes, dislikes, age preferences, background, and location. The final decision about a match is always yours.
Movies: It’s important to communicate while engaged in a common interest with your Little: hard to do at a movie. When you do go, be sure to share your reactions and thoughts after the show.
Shopping: Avoid this as an activity unless you both agree on the purpose and goal, such as how make a sound purchase for a Mother's Day gift or spend an allowance wisely. If you choose to shop, set limits as you would with any child who, confronted with enticing displays, wants something he/she cannot have.
• Use humor to start conversations; there’s nothing like a good laugh to break the ice. (Your match support team can give you great tips on this.)
• Keep intermittent eye contact; look at your Little when he/she is talking and smile when it’s appropriate.
• When your Little is talking make sure he or she knows you are not distracted; be an active listener: Tell me more about that, What happened next?, How did you feel? (Not: Why did/didn’t/won’t you?, How could you?, etc.)
• Be aware of your body language and facial expressions…avoid folding your arms, rolling your eyes, frowning, or otherwise showing disapproval

